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What is a BDSM candle?

BDSM candles are accessories specially designed for erotic practices within the framework of BDSM, particularly for wax play, a game that involves dripping hot wax onto the body to provoke pleasurable sensations of heat and slight pain. These candles are formulated for safe use on the skin, as they melt at a lower temperature than ordinary candles, minimizing the risk of burns.

BDSM candles are ideal for adding an element of surprise and sensory intensity to BDSM sessions, while also being a means of playing with pain, control and trust between partners.

How to use a BDSM candle

1. Prepare the wax play session

Before you start, it's important to prepare the room properly and make sure everything is in place for a safe and enjoyable experience:

• Choose an appropriate space: Use a protected surface (such as a sheet or blanket) to avoid staining furniture or the floor.
• Warn your partner: Make sure your partner is comfortable with the idea of wax play. Communication is essential in BDSM practices, and it's important to discuss consent and boundaries beforehand.

2. Applying wax to the body

Here are some key steps for successful wax application:

• Light the candle: Wait a few minutes for the wax to melt properly and reach an appropriate temperature for play.
• Test the temperature: Before dripping the wax onto your partner, test the temperature by dripping a small drop onto your own hand or wrist.
• Pour the wax gradually: Start at a certain distance from the body (around 30 cm) and adjust according to your partner's tolerance. The closer you bring the candle to your body, the hotter the wax will be.

3. Clean up after the session

After the wax play session, let the wax cool on the skin before removing it. Use a non-cutting object, such as a plastic card or your fingers, to gently scrape off the wax. You can also use a body oil to dissolve any residue. The wax is very easy to remove.

What are the different qualities of BDSM candles?

1. Materials used in BDSM candles

BDSM candles are made from specific materials to guarantee safety and comfort during wax play. Here are the most common types:

Paraffin-based candles

Paraffin-based candles are the most commonly used in wax play because of their low melting point (usually around 50 to 54 degrees Celsius). They melt quickly and provide a sensation of warmth without the risk of serious burns. They are ideal for beginners.

Beeswax candles

Beeswax candles have a higher melting point, which means they release more heat when they touch the skin. They are suitable for experienced users seeking more intense sensations. However, they require greater care.

2. Colors and scents of BDSM candles

BDSM candles are available in a wide range of colors and scents, adding an aesthetic and sensory dimension to the experience:

• Colors: Dark-colored candles like black or red bring a sensual aesthetic.
• Fragrances: Some candles are scented with essential oils, creating a relaxing or erotic atmosphere according to preference.

Other frequently asked questions about BDSM candles

Are BDSM candles safe?

Yes, BDSM candles are designed to melt at a lower temperature than ordinary candles, making them safer to use on the skin. However, it's important to always test the temperature of the wax before applying it to someone, and to ensure open communication with your partner.

What's the difference between BDSM candles and normal candles?

Normal candles, such as those used for decoration or lighting, melt at higher temperatures and can cause severe burns if used on the skin. BDSM candles, on the other hand, are formulated to liquefy at a lower temperature, offering a pleasant sensation without undue risk.

How do I remove wax after a wax play session?

To remove wax after a wax play session, wait for it to cool completely. You can use your fingers or a smooth object to gently loosen it from the skin. Avoid using sharp objects that could injure the skin. If the wax adheres too tightly, you can apply a massage oil to facilitate removal.

Which areas of the body are best suited to wax play?

The safest areas for wax play are those with less sensitive skin, such as the back, thighs and torso. Avoid pouring wax on sensitive areas such as the genitals, face or armpits, unless you have experience and understand the person's limitations.